Its Time To Heel Your Life

I am looking for an answer why do i always back off when it comes to express my feelings? After these many years now i have figured out that words are no less powerfull then the feelings. Words can alter your's as well as others life.

Everyone has respect & love for their parents, but how many of the us have uttered so. Have anyone among us have ever told our mother that "dont worry, I will take care of you" or hugged our dad when he is in trouble. we (at least i) feel awkward to do so.
you might disagree on the last point saying that in family or especially with parents you dont need to say anything, they already know you well. But still if you express them i assure you they will get rejuvenated. This works like a catalyst for the process we call bondage.

Feeling sad when your friend lost his job, but not saying any word will not going to help him at all. we generally think this may hurt his pride. But if you are a true friend you should take this risk. If your intensions are good, he will not misunderstand you. Again who will tell him your intension, you tell him. Never feel shy in saying silly things like that.

Sometimes we dont appreciate someone's work or we dont congratulate one on his success partly because we think it doesn't matter to him & partly because of some fear. I think if you say something in words you become more firm on that. If you keep repeating some false believe, one day that is going to be inhibit in you.

All I want to convey is that dont pile up love, respect, praise & all deep inside your head, say it. If you are not doing so, you will have blood relations as they come by birth, but not the one made by you because they require verbal confirmation.

I am already suffering with this syndrome. but i want you to overcome the same in you. Become shameless and express your feelings to your family, friends and love (if you have one).