A beautiful Nightmare

Hi frnds, bear with yet another love story. now i understood why all bollywood movies have this concept , because its easy to find one, easy to think & easy to co-relate with someone. All the characters in this plot are fictional & there is nothing to do with any dead or alive man.



David is rewinding all those movies with time travel theme in his mind. He imagines to meet some crazy physicist from the future who lends him his time travel machine, then he goes back in time & changes the sequence of events that led to Sebastien's wedding with john, which is a part of business deal between their parents.

He ask himself, "Is it some sort of tradition that a businessman father go for another businessman or businessman's son, an actor for another actor, a government servant for government employee, a politician for minister's son ...".

He continues, "What kind of myth is it, that all parents follow the concept of INTRA ie intra cast, intra religion, intra profession, intra state marriage. Why do they impose all these restrictions on marriages? Dont they know that love & hate dont have any boundaries? Why don't they let their children find their partner on their own? May be I can't understand them because I have not experienced that situation yet."

David's love for Sebastien has always been unconditional & one sided, but when he expressed, it was too late for him. Sebastien was already in the business game of her father. David is more happy for Sebastien wedding then being sorry for himself. he always wished the best for her, and for that sake only he kept himself back when Sebastien told him about her wedding.

Today Sebastien is looking even more gorgeous in white wedding attires with a veil of net. David, being the best man chosen by Sebastien, welcomes her with a bouquet of flowers & accompanies her till the stage. John is eagerly waiting to have a look at her as today he was not allowed to see her or even talk her before the wedding. David is standing right behind the couple, constantly watching his love being stolen. Volcano of sorrow is about to burst inside but he is smiling for outside world. He is trying hard not to let his emotions bulge out, that's why when ever she looks at him, he changes his gaze. David is capturing Sebastien in his handy camera for the last resort for his loneliness.

After reading holy lines from Bible Father declares john & Sebastien husband & wife, then they lock their lips, David screams & finds himself in his bed. "Oh! my Gosh that was a dream, but soon it will be a reality", thought David & went back to sleep.



PS: this article lacks the marriage description of a Christen wedding, as i got a chance to see them only in movies.

Fwd Story....2nd Edition

Waves are hitting the shore destroying the homes made by crabs. Earth seems to slide beneath Suparna when the salty alkaline water moves away from her. Her jeans is completely wet & sandy. She don't want to go beyond that, but her husband is calling her from a distance of 4-5 meters. Foreigners in two piece can be seen having their good time deep down the sea. Few are taking sunbath & their children are playing games like disk-throw and volleyball. Suparna is on her honeymoon trip to goa with suhaas on a one week package. Last Monday she got married to Suhaas, a handsome guy with a smart pay scale.

Two months back suparna's father found out about suhaas, a simple guy belonging to a high class family in the same cast, not indulge in smoking & drinking, highly educated & manager in reputed software company. After that Suhaas & Suparna met once in a highly formal meeting in which they discussed about their likes & dislikes. When it takes years for people to understand each other, isn't it unfair to decide your life partner in an hour meet?

Suparna always believed in friendship until the day her father brought the marriage proposal. "Why..but why i didn't let any boy come closer to me", suparna had asked this question many times in the last one month.

How can they send me to goa with someone they hardly know. They always asked tens of questions before any group trip. Now what made them to think I would be all safe with suhaas? Is it like they handed over their responsibility of guarding me or something in me, to suhaas & for which they are no longer bothered at all? Suhaas is enjoying, getting hit by the waves, he is cool but I don't like him because i don't know him. He may be pretending to be good. who knows whether the devil inside him can be trusted or not? Is he calling me to drown in the water? Last time i came here with all my friends, I enjoyed all of it, but i am not willing to believe some god damn guy just because he is my husband. Suparna's thoughts scambled when suhaas threw some water on her face.

"are you afraid of water?, come you are safe as long as i am with you, enjoy it suparna, take it easy", suhaas said. He is now facing me, all wet, in swim wear. "Look i think you are still not ready to accept me as your husband, so let me put it in simple. I can understand your situation because i was also not ready for this marriage. Family reputation & ideals prevented me to choose a girl by myself. I didn't want to hurt my parents by marrying on my own, after all they have their dreams", suhaas said sitting beside me, "But now when we have married, we have plenty of time to understand each other & make our marriage stable & happy. Apart from going along with this we don't have any option left, so better live with it & make it happen. so tell me, will you love me? will you trust me?"

"Ok!Ok! geek, yes i will. what option life has left for me too ", suparna thought & hugged him.

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A Girl Can Change UR Life

[prologue] Right from your birth, you come in touch with many girls. They impact your life drastically but still you don't notice it because you go along with it. Here i have tried to summarize the impact a girl can impose on your life as a mother, sister, teacher, friend, wife & daughter.

A girl , when give you birth, you come to life.

A girl , when tie a thread, you get responsibilities in life

A girl , when pulls your ear, you vow to sucess in life.

A girl , when leave your house,you get the pain of life.

A girl , when come into your life,you find the love of life.

A girl , when dumps you,you experience the shock of life.

A girl , when marry you, you get the companion of life.

A girl , when hold your fingers,you have the new purpose of life.

[epilogue] Girls affects our life in numerous ways but we renounce this fact & live in our self made man centric world. Although today girls are paving their way to all fields, competing men, but deep inside many of us dont like this in our day to day life. Why do husband want to dominate over wives? why boys want more chocolate than their sister? why girl have to bring dowry with them? and most importantly why couple want to abort the girl fetus? The fact is that we need the girls more than they need us.

PS: All critics please ignore my logical mistake of a girl giving birth, for that i would say that women is nothing but a married girl.

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Yes Girl

Eve belonged to a YES family where nobody knew, how to say no. Eve inherited a habit of saying YES to all those things/activities that she could afford to do.

In her school days, she used to spend all her pocket money on her friends because she could never deny them. That's when she learned lying just to avoid yes. She unwillingly wasted a lot of her time gallivanting with her friends.

She envied biology, but her family wanted her to see as a doctor so she got herself enrolled into some medical college, leaving behind her passion for mathematics.

In her college days, just to avoid no, she started becoming invisible on the gtalk. In her teenage she could not deny to any of boys asking her for date without losing anything.

She couldn't refuse to her father for the first wedding proposal he brought & got married. All the boys who dated felt sorry for her.

Her children loved her because she allowed them to do whatever they asked, but after few days they stopped asking and started assuming yes in response.

She always pleased everyone but in return she never got recognition, respect, love & identity. Moreover by saying yes to everyone she screwed up all her life.

Eve is not a girl or a women ,she is an epitome of attitude that many among us show from time to time in our daily routine.

Moral of the story is "say yes or say no, but say immediately & that too on the face, don't say the opposite of what you have in your mind"

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sush got married..was the summer of '09

In my two years of abode in south city of India, I have witnessed three marriages. I attended two from groom's side & one from bride's side.

This labour’s day I went to attend the marriage of my colleague friend sushmita's (name changed) marriage. Prior to going there i had to decide the gift which was tough as well as boring for the kiddie like me. None of my friends (including girls) gave any suggestion.

Because of the fact that Sushmita is so thin that a little more advanced propeller will lift her in the air, the very first thought for the gift which swept around my head was the protienx, boost or horlicks. But you cannot give that in someone's wedding. Finally i decided something, which later on I realised, was more appropriate for girls rather than women & as marriage is a state conversion process from girl to women, all i could do was to feel sorry.

I am a little paranoid about what others think about me, so i preferred not to attend the reception (ie why I fear of my own marriage as well). I always liked to be a silent spectator rather than a cheer leader. At last I finalised on attending the marriage ceremony to witness the rituals of a wedding in kannada fashion, which was supposed to be carried out at 8:30 in the morning. I sacrificed my morning sleep & got up at 6am.

Defying my expectations Sushmita noticed me within five minutes of my arrival, although i tried not to distract her attention from the most crucial turn of her life. From the mandap (stage) only she somehow informed her brother about my presence, who then humbly showed me the way to hospitality services. After enjoying breakfast, for the next two hours i kept watching the rituals closely as if someday i have to perform them in an interstate wedding of mine.

Sushmita was dressed in white & during the rituals they made her stand on a rose, made up of card board, which reminded me of goddess sarashwati as we see in pictures. I guess south marriages don’t have seven rounds around the fire. Couple lived up every moment while sprinkling rice of different colours & other stuffs on each other’s faces.

Marriages in south are very simple. In place of orchestra & bands they have classical instruments. In place of spicy food they serve simple daily food. In place of sherwani & suits groom wear simple dhoti. And above all you will find the couple enjoying their wedding, which is something north marriages (conventional) are really missing.

North Indian brides are bound to be serious in their wedding to express the grief of leaving her parents & mingling to an unknown world of strangers. Similarly north Indian grooms are forced not to enjoy their marriage so that their excitement of getting married is not leaked out.

It was a great fun as well as learning experience to attend a kannada marriage, because for me this is the best way to come across the vast Indian culture.