Eve belonged to a YES family where nobody knew, how to say no. Eve inherited a habit of saying YES to all those things/activities that she could afford to do.
In her school days, she used to spend all her pocket money on her friends because she could never deny them. That's when she learned lying just to avoid yes. She unwillingly wasted a lot of her time gallivanting with her friends.
She envied biology, but her family wanted her to see as a doctor so she got herself enrolled into some medical college, leaving behind her passion for mathematics.
In her college days, just to avoid no, she started becoming invisible on the gtalk. In her teenage she could not deny to any of boys asking her for date without losing anything.
She couldn't refuse to her father for the first wedding proposal he brought & got married. All the boys who dated felt sorry for her.
Her children loved her because she allowed them to do whatever they asked, but after few days they stopped asking and started assuming yes in response.
She always pleased everyone but in return she never got recognition, respect, love & identity. Moreover by saying yes to everyone she screwed up all her life.
Eve is not a girl or a women ,she is an epitome of attitude that many among us show from time to time in our daily routine.
Moral of the story is "say yes or say no, but say immediately & that too on the face, don't say the opposite of what you have in your mind"
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Good one !! :)
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